More On Keeping True Love
But then, the research finds, we all move out of that phase into the me/us phase. In this phase, we differentiate, we separate some, we get back to working on our own goals and interests, we don't want to spend ALL our time with our mate.
We also start having some conflicts
with our partner in this phase. This is normal and healthy and
natural. Yet it is a big danger time, many relationships break up
during this phase because they think the true love is gone.
True love is about accepting all of your mate, the parts you love with the parts you don't like as much, and working out differences rather than leaving because of them. So focus on this piece of relationship intelligence
You don't get to keep true love unless you learn how to deal with conflict and differences in a healthy way and work them out rather than leave because of them.
Learning this is the only way to keep true love. So keep building your relationship intelligence and you will get to keep true love.
There is much more to learn about this. Learn more about healthy conflict here.
Here are some links to other information that can be of help.