Relationship Advice Help Book 1
You can read much of the book Train Your Mate - How To Have The Relationship You Want, here, to see if it is for you!
Train Your Mate - How To Have The Relationship You Want
No offense to either gender in what follows. Really. Both males and females are magnificent and have great strengths and qualities. And, both men and women, as genders, have weaknesses to go along with their strengths. It’s just the nature of being human.
To start with the obvious, women are connected mostly to what can be called “feminine energy.” Some people call it estrogen, but a more useful view, for our purposes, is that women are moved by and processing feminine energy. Men are connected mostly to “masculine energy.” Again, people call it testosterone, but its much more than a hormone.
Good so far, right? Totally obvious. Women are connected to and processing feminine energy. Women like to nurture and create family, shop for pretty things, etc. That could be called an expression of feminine energy. Men are connected to and processing masculine energy. Some expressions of this masculine energy are that men like to compete and hunt, as an example. Nothing wrong with this, we all know men and women are different.
Completely obvious. Men are from Mars, women from Venus type thing. Women are in general “softer” and men are in general “harder.” Beyond that, we each have a bit of masculine and feminine energy in us. Yes, women like to nurture and create family, but they clearly can compete and bring home the bacon as well as any man. Women feel, know, process, and express more than just feminine energy. But, as a general rule for the entire gender, it is kinda obvious that women mostly process and relate to life with feminine energy.
Men on the other hand, enjoy nurturing and family, not just sports and competition and beer. Men have their soft sides, and women have their hard sides. For now, I’m just suggesting that women are mostly processing feminine energy and that men are processing mostly masculine energy, but we each also have another side.
So if you have followed this far without getting too insulted, (some people are so sensitive!) what I’m basically saying is something we all already know intuitively, which is that women and men mostly process and think and relate from a different kind of energy. The softer feminine or the harder masculine.
I am not in any way saying softer is weak, or that harder is strong.