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Jen's husband screwed up. He cheated on her, got caught and she kicked him out. Jason felt like an idiot and wanted desperately to get back together. He begged and pleaded with her to give him another chance. “It meant nothing, it’s you I really love!” But Jennifer said exactly what most women in this situation feel: “No Way, I can never trust you again.” Both of them were hurt and feeling miserable.
Jason had lost his marriage over a “meaningless” fling. He was desperate for relationship advice. Jen felt betrayed and could see no way to get back to the feelings of love for her husband. Was there any marriage help for her?
Divorce and relationship breakups happen all the time for all kinds of reasons. Cheating is one of the biggest causes, but it can be anything. Constant fighting and arguing. One spouse just “isn’t that into” the other one anymore. Or one of you is too jealous and the other feels smothered. Whatever. Relationship problems lead to breakups.
But what if you can get your husband or wife back, even for the worst of transgressions? Using the information you’re about to discover, Jen made a specific kind of call to her soon-to-be ex husband
that took less than ten minutes.
In that one phone call something remarkable happened for Jen. She actually began to feel like maybe she could trust him again. So they got back together that same night. Yes, they still have some things to work on, but they got back together because Jen learned something remarkable about how to get over an affair.
What if you could get your spouse back? What if you could stop your divorce? And in the process build a stronger marriage than you had before? It happens a lot, and it can happen for you. What if you could move beyond any and all past mistakes made between you and save your marriage in hours?
My name is John Laney and I teach courses on Relationship and Emotional Intelligence. I’ve written a book called How To Get Your Love Back Now. The 7 Minute Reconnect Method Jason used is just one of the powerful approaches you can learn to win back your ex and help fix your marriage.
What if your relationship ended over another huge problem – your husband or wife just isn’t that into you? The passion died away. Like when Mike told Debra “Things just aren’t the same anymore… we seem to have lost the love…” and walked out of her life. Debra felt crushed. Her husband had dumped her because things had gotten too stale and mechanical. The passion was gone. Ouch! And this happens in marriages the world over, all the time. But what could she do when he just wasn’t that into her anymore?
Can you get your ex husband back when
This kind of common relationship problem requires a whole different approach than Jen needed with Jason. And its not hard to learn at all. Debra made a different kind of call to Mike.
It took less than ten minutes.
She followed it up with a second call the next day and they were back together and got over their breakup within two days. She and Mike are now both back in love and having more fun than ever before. You can learn exactly what she said in the call to win back his heart. You see, relationships deal in Emotional Logic. Learn it, and you can turn your ex husband back into your love.
Jen used some compelling Emotional Intelligence to get back with Jason. The 7 Minute Reconnect Method that she used won’t work for everyone. Yet it’s perfect for most situations. It is powerful and it will help you to move beyond mistakes with your ex or that your ex made with you much more quickly.
Debra used a very different kind of Emotional Logic to get back with Mike. Even after Mike said the dreaded words “Maybe we can still be friends.” And, she had a lot of fun doing it.
I am going to tell you in this letter one of the first basic pieces to winning back the love of your ex. But first, please understand
It’s Not Hopeless!
Look. If you are in the midst of a break up or divorce, I know it’s a hard time. A break up is an emotional hurricane of very difficult feelings to deal with. Heartache. Sadness. Loneliness. Desperation. In Jen’s case betrayal and shame and in Debra’s case sadness and grief. Break up’s trigger some of the worst feelings in our lives.
You can cry at the drop of a hat. Or see two lovers holding hands and suddenly feel the weight of a bowling ball in your gut for what you’ve lost. Hear a love song on the radio and feel crushing heartache.
But what if you could win back your ex? What if you could not only begin to repair the damage but learn some simple methods to have more love than ever before? What if you could stop a breakup or divorce dead in its tracks with a 7 minute conversation? What if you could turn your ex husband into your lover again within hours?
But how?? Is there some secret recipe to making your ex want you back? Is there some code proven by others that you could rush your love back into your arms?
The Code can be called EQ.
EQ stands for Emotional Intelligence. Jen had a tough problem to overcome, right? Cheating is one of the biggest relationship killers in the world. He desperately wanted another chance, but Jen kept feeling she could never trust him again. What can you do if that’s the case? Now - whether you wronged your spouse and cheated on them or they wronged you - learning some EQ will help you get your love back and stop your break up or divorce.
You need Emotional Intelligence if you are
And, if you do talk to your separated spouse, what if it gets no better, or even worse? Does your soon to be ex husband or wife seem more distant or angry or resolved to stay clear of you? That’s okay, because
We can make a lot of mistakes during a break up, like
Some friendly advice? Don’t do those things or stop doing them. They’re bad Emotional Logic, and will drive your ex husband or ex wife even further away!
Make Your Ex Want You Back With
the 7 Minute Reconnect Method
Like I said, I teach Emotional and Relationship Intelligence courses. And one of the first things that you learn coaching couples is this: all marriages have breakdowns. You know what a breakdown is - Fights, arguments, upsets, distancing. It’s gonna happen in all relationships.
Well, since millions of couples every day have breakdowns in their relationship, many marriage studies have been done to see what works and what doesn’t work when couples have problems. After all, there are lots of opportunities to observe this, right?
But both attacking
They keep the upset from being resolved! And, attacking and withdrawing both damage the quality of the relationship. But if you’re like most people, you’re stuck! You probably know that attacking/forcing your separated spouse won’t get them back. Or you know just as clearly that the “silent treatment” and being cold and distant isn’t working either.
What else can you do?
Well, just as studies have figured out what doesn’t work to save a marriage, there are also several things people do to reconnect that do work. Saying “I’m sorry” til you’re blue in the face doesn’t work, but saying “I’m sorry” using the right Emotional Logic can work within minutes. And if, like Jen, you've been wronged by your mate, hearing someone keep saying "I'm sorry" over and over again doesn't make it better.
Three other important things have to happen first in an apology for it to really work the way you want it to. And almost nobody gets these three vital steps right. Learning what to say before I’m sorry can allow you to be back with your ex often within minutes or hours from now. It can literally save your marriage! And, if you've been wronged by your husband or wife, there is a powerful way to help them apologize to you in a way that works!
I’ve been studying and teaching about breakdowns in relationships for years now. I’ve coached lots of people on how to reconnect and get back together. And one of the most interesting things I’ve learned is this: a few powerful conversations that take less than ten minutes can begin to get most married couples past big problems. After a ten minute discussion you can begin to be back in love within hours.
Whether its cheating or being wronged or loss of passion and boredom. Often times, just ten minutes of the right kind of Emotional Logic can begin to win back your love. No begging or pleading. No yelling or forcing. No more being cold and distant. The Emotional Intelligence involved in getting your love back can be learned in minutes from the book
This book isn’t about tricks and gimmicks like “bumping” into the separated spouse at the restaurant they’re eating at or trying to make your ex jealous by acting like you have a new lover. Tricks and gimmicks won’t work in the long run. Trying to manipulate or trick your mate to get back with you is a flimsy plan that will hurt you long term.
Want proof that it works?
I realize this might be starting to sound like some overhyped sales pitch and you may be skeptical. Having worked with tons of couples, I can honestly tell you that this is marriage and relationship advice we all need. I’m passionate about getting the word out. It does make a difference. Everyone should have it. Hopefully someday it will be taught in schools. But here’s some “proof” from satisfied clients:
Let me be clear. This is not about using some tricks or gimmicks to try to manipulate the ex into taking you back. Even if such things worked, your relationship would be based on trickery and not Real Love. Eventually it will fail.
This is about using your own Emotional Intelligence to get what you both want and need in your relationship. The Emotional Logic necessary to stop your break up or divorce and make your mate want to hold you close again is easy to learn. You can download the book in the next 2 minutes and use the 7 Minute Reconnect Method within one hour from now! You'll love it, and so will your ex!
We weren’t taught any
P.S. It took me years to learn this stuff. You can learn it in minutes. And if you’re suffering from a potential or actual divorce shouldn’t you know some of the most powerful Emotional Intelligence techniques available to get back with your ex husband or ex wife? People have used Emotional logic to stop a divorce dead in its tracks, so this will work for your situation too. Wouldn’t you benefit for the rest of your life if you knew clearly how to repair a broken marriage?
Read what others have had to say about this system:
" My husband called off the divorce!"
He was so mad that I
cheated on him, I thought he'd never get over it, but after using your Trust
Rebuilder he started to soften and now things are looking much
"We have a date for tomorrow!"
I called him up, followed
your advice step by step, and we're seeing each other again tomorrow.
Thanks one hundred million!
"We are talking again!"
Your book was a lifesaver! It
really helped me to know exactly what to do. I thought she'd written
me off completely but we talked for over an hour last night. Things
are looking good and I really thank you!
"It took 15 Minutes Not 7!"
Haha! You said your immediate
reconnect strategy would work fast, and I didn't believe it, but I'm not
complaining! She accepted my deep apology and invited me over last
"My attitude is much better and he noticed!"
You can get so down on yourself and
weepy in a breakup. After following your advice, I felt so
much better and he noticed. He actually suggested getting together for
coffee next week. I didn't have to push! I am so grateful.
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