"Who Else Wants to Make Your Marriage As Loving and
Fun As You Know It Can Be?
You Can Revive Your Marriage,
even if you’re the only one trying!
Mike told Debra “Things just aren’t the same anymore…
we’ve lost the passion for each other, and I think it’s time to divorce and
move on…” Debra felt crushed. She knew he had been losing some interest in
her but was hoping it wouldn’t come to this. She loved him, but what
could she do when he just wasn’t that into her anymore?
Can you fix your marriage when
they’re just “not that into you” anymore?
Things can get stale and in a rut between any two
people. This kind of marriage problem kills couples off every day the world
over. But using some Relationship Intelligence you’re about to discover,
Debra had a simple talk with Mike.
It took less than ten minutes.
She followed it up by changing one thing
and they were back in love within a week. She and Mike are now having more
fun than ever before. You can learn exactly what she said in the talk
to win back his heart. Debra used some powerful Relationship Intelligence
with Mike. Learn it, and you can turn relationship problems into
breakthroughs. Because, as we all find out
It’s easier to fall in love
than it is to stay in love!
Marriage
problems happen all the time for all kinds of reasons. One mate not that
into the other anymore is just one common kind of trouble, but it can be
anything. Constant fighting and arguing. One spouse cheats on the other or
wrongs them in some way. Or one of you is too controlling and the other
feels smothered. Here’s another all too common scenario:
Jen’s husband screwed up. He cheated on her
and got caught. Jason begged and pleaded with her to give him another
chance. “It meant nothing, it’s you I really love!” But Jennifer said what
most women in this situation feel: “No Way, I can never trust you again!”
Both of them were hurt and feeling miserable and headed towards divorce. She
didn’t want to throw the marriage away but she wasn’t going to live with a
man she couldn’t trust. And, she had the kids to think about!
Jen felt betrayed and could see no way to get back
to the feelings of love for her man. Was there anyway to save her marriage,
get over feelings of betrayal, and make her marriage cheat proof? Was there
any relationship advice for her? Jason had lost his love over a
“meaningless” fling. Did he deserve a second chance? Was there any
relationship help for him?
But what if you can
repair your relationship, even for the
worst of transgressions? Using the information you’re about to discover, Jen
had a short step by step conversation with her soon to be ex husband
that took less than ten minutes.
In that 7 Step discussion something remarkable
happened for Jen. She actually began to feel like maybe she could trust him
again. So they called off the lawyers and stayed together. Yes, they still
have some things to work on, but they got back together because Jen learned
some specific Relationship Intelligence to help them both get past a
marriage wrecker.
What if you could not only
revive your marriage in the process build a stronger love relationship than
you had before? It happens a lot, and it can happen for you. What if you
could move beyond any and all past mistakes made between you?
My name is John Laney and I teach courses on
Relationship and Emotional Intelligence. I’ve written a book called The
Train Your Mate System for Having the Relationship You Want. This book
is a complete system that will take you by the hand and walk you
through exactly how to fix any marital
issue step by step.
Husband or wife, whatever your situation, you can
learn the Train Your Mate System within minutes and put it to work to
have the marriage you want starting today. You
can learn exactly what to say and do to turn relationship problems into
breakthroughs.
Even if you’re the only one trying. Even
if your spouse doesn’t seem cooperative. You see, relationships deal in
Emotional Logic. Learn this, and seemingly “all by yourself” you can get the
love back and turn conflict into caresses. Yes, we all know that it takes
two to fight, but it only takes one to start a shift in the relationship. If
you use some powerful Relationship Intelligence, you can be “the one” that
turns things around!
Jen used some compelling Emotional
Intelligence to give Jason a real second chance. The 7 Step Trust Rebuilder
is perfect for some situations. It is powerful and it will
help you to move beyond mistakes with your love much more quickly.
Debra had to use a very different kind of Emotional
Logic to win back Mike’s love. Even after Mike said the dreaded words “Maybe
we can still be friends.” And, she had a lot of fun doing
it.
I am going to give you in this letter one of the
first useful foundations of Relationship Intelligence. It’s coming right up.
But first, please understand
It’s Not Hopeless!
Look. If you’re having some marriage problems, I know
it’s a hard time. A troubled relationship is an emotional hurricane
of very difficult feelings to deal with. Heartache. Sadness. Loneliness.
Desperation. In Jen’s case betrayal and shame and in Debra’s case sadness
and grief. Marriages can trigger not just love but some of the worst
feelings in our lives.
You can cry at the drop of a hat. You can feel miles
apart even when you’re in the same room. You wonder what it’s doing to the
kids. Hear a love song on the radio and feel crushing heartache. Fly into a
rage over the littlest of things.
But what if you could win back your love?
What if you could not only begin to repair the damage but learn some simple
methods to have more love than ever before? But how?? Is there some secret
recipe to making it happen? Is there some code proven by others that you
could learn to not just repair things but create the relationship help you
want?
The Code can be called EQ.
EQ stands for Emotional Intelligence, a key part of
Relationship Intelligence. Jen had a tough problem to overcome, right?
Cheating is one of the biggest marriage killers in the world. She loved
Jason but wondered if she could ever trust him again. What can you do if
that’s the case? Man or woman - whether you wronged your mate or they
wronged you - learning some amazing EQ can help you not just repair the
damage but make your relationship cheat proof.
Debra had a different problem to solve. When
you've lost the passion and your spouse just isn’t that into you anymore,
there is something missing. Most couples just divorce after a while. After
all, the love seems like its gone, right? But in reality all you need is a
different kind of EQ to discover and provide what’s missing.
You need Emotional
Intelligence
if you are
Fighting
and arguing a lot
Feeling
all alone in your relationship
Losing
the spark and passion
Bitching
and nagging much of the time
Heading
towards - or already - in a sexless marriage
Worrying
if your spouse is cheating on you
Being
treated like a roommate rather than a lover
Wondering
where the love went and if you can get it back
Feeling
hopeless, like there’s nothing you can do
Rehashing
your last conversations and fights endlessly
And, when you try to talk about
relationship problems with your spouse, what if it gets no better, or even
worse? Do they seem more distant or angry ? That’s okay, because
We can make a lot of mistakes in a marriage, like
Blame our mate, tell them it’s all their fault
argue even louder and harder.
Withhold sex or have it with someone else
Bitch and nag and attack
come across as totally desperate and needy.
Try the “silent treatment” and retreat
or get pushy and obnoxious.
Some friendly advice? Stop doing those things. They’re
bad Emotional Logic, and will drive your mate even further away!
How to Have the Marriage
You Want Instead
Like I said, I teach Emotional and
Relationship Intelligence courses. And one of the first things you learn
working with people on relationships is
It’s easier to fall in
love than to stay in love!
Staying
in love and loving happily ever is a challenge for all of us – over 50% of
marriages end up in divorce! Staying in love requires a set of relationship
skills they never taught us in school. Did you get to take any classes on
loving happily ever after? Relationships are the most important things in
our lives, and yet we never got one class in school on how to make them
work!
I said I was going to give you some
foundational Relationship Intelligence and here we go. First, all
relationships have breakdowns. You know what a breakdown is - Fights,
arguments, upsets, distancing. It’s gonna happen in all relationships.
Well, since millions of couples every day have breakdowns in their
relationship, many studies have been done to see what works and what doesn’t
work when couples have problems. After all, there are lots of opportunities
to observe this, right?
And here’s what the studies on thousands of couples found!
Most people deal with breakdowns by doing one of
two things. They either attack or they withdraw. Attackers
(who aren’t bad and are very nice people usually) try to argue or
dominate or manipulate their mate into agreeing with them.
Attackers are so uncomfortable with the breakdown/upset they try to
force their mate to see it their way.
“Retreaters” (who are also very nice people)
have a whole different strategy. They are so uncomfortable with the
breakdown that they shut down. Withdraw behind a wall of silence.
Shut out their mate. They come across as cold and distant.
Now we have all attacked and “retreated” in
different arguments in our lives. In some relationships,
both of you retreat behind walls of silence. The distance
between you gets so vast and can feel so uncross-able! And with some
other couples, both of you attack and argue
until it seems that’s all that you do.
But both attacking
and
withdrawing are mistakes!
They keep the upset from being resolved! And,
attacking and withdrawing both damage the
quality of the marriage. But if you’re like most people, you’re stuck!
You probably know that attacking/forcing your mate doesn’t work. And
surely you’ve figured out that the “silent treatment” and being cold and
distant and withholding sex isn’t working either.
What else can you do?
Well,
just as studies have figured out what doesn’t work, there are also
several things people do to resolve issues that work. The Train Your
Mate System in the book will walk you through how to get what you want
and have breakthroughs in your marriage even if you are the only one
trying.
That’s right, even if your mate seems uninterested in
changing anything, using some simple Emotional Logic and Relationship
Intelligence you can start bringing the love back to your relationship
today. There is a powerful, humorous, 4 step Quick Change Method to
accomplish just this that anyone can learn in minutes.
The Train Your Mate System also includes the Love
Multiplier. Using some of the latest discoveries in Relationship
Intelligence, you can increase the love both of you actually feel
in the relationship. You can feel 10 times the love. Really, and all it
takes is 5 minutes or so a day. No relationship should be without this.
It can actually "fight and cheat proof" your marriage.
It contains a complete course on Turning
Conflict Into Caresses. This is Relationship Intelligence not available
anywhere else. And, how about how to stop fighting at the source, before
it begins? You can learn exactly how to do that to.
I’ve been studying and teaching about breakdowns in
relationships for years now. I’ve coached lots of people on how to not
just fix relationship problems but take things to the next level. And
one of the most interesting things I’ve learned is this: a few powerful
conversations that take less than ten minutes can begin
to get most couples past big problems.
Whether its loss of passion or fighting or
cheating. Often times, just ten minutes of the right kind of Emotional
Logic can begin to win back your love. No begging or pleading. No
yelling or forcing. No being a doormat. No more being cold and distant.
The Emotional Intelligence involved in getting the love back can be
learned in minutes from the book
The
Train Your Mate System For Having the Relationship You Want
This book gives you an astonishing
system for getting the best out of your marriage using the latest
Relationship Intelligence. Even if you’re the only one trying. Even if your
spouse or your relationship is stuck in a rut. You can absolutely create
instant breakthroughs in the quality of your love life, starting in just 10
minutes.
Will everything be fixed in 10 minutes? No, obviously
not. But in just ten minutes you can begin to get past any big problems
and within days be well on your way to having exactly the relationship
you both want – even if your partner won’t talk about or doesn’t seem
interested in working on the relationship at all.
The Train Your Mate System isn’t about trying to
manipulate your mate into doing what you want. It isn’t about gimmicks
like wearing sexier lingerie to try to rekindle interest. Trying to
manipulate or trick your mate into change is a flimsy plan that won’t
get your real love..
Let’s look at what’s in
The Train Your Mate System and how it can help you:
The Intimate 4 Step Change
Method for Training Your Spouse and Getting What You Want.
This is powerful. It gives you an “almost unfair advantage.” It’s
only 4 steps and you can learn it in just minutes and put it to use
today. This 4 Step Method is astonishing and you’ve got to learn
this essential tool whatever your situation.
(Begins on Page 25)
What To Do If
They’re Just Not That Into You! This happens a lot
in marriages. One spouse gets bored or loses passion for the other.
They just don’t seem to be that into you any more. What can you do
to turn this around in just a few days? Not only is there lots you
can do - it can be some of the most fun you’ll have too!
(The Chapter beginning on page 81 walks you through this easy and
fun fix!)
How To Turn
Conflict Into Caresses! Conflict can rip your love
relationship to shreds. However, there is some powerful Emotional
Logic you can apply to any conflict to turn it into caresses sooner
rather than later. The Train Your Mate System contains the
only Conflict To Caresses complete course available anywhere in the
world. You’ll love this – and so will your mate.
(Begins on page 119)
How To Get
Over Being Wronged! Lots of lovers get betrayed by
their spouses, and feel like they can’t trust them ever again. Learn
how to give your ex (or about to be ex) a second chance and keep the
same problem from ever happening again.
(Pages 144-158 reveals exactly how to accomplish this!)
Stop All the
Fighting and Arguing. That’s what’s driving you
apart. Learn two powerful skills to stop fighting at the source.
You won’t stop all of it, but you can easily prevent most arguments
before they begin. Discover how to cut out the fighting and make
love not war with your spouse. (Starts on
Page 73)
How to Regain
Their Trust! If you cheated or in some other way
betrayed your lover, and you’re worried they’ll never be able to
trust you again, you must learn this. Most
people think it can take years, if ever, to rebuild trust, but
you’ll find out it can be done within hours!
(Page 149)
How To Stop A
Divorce Dead In It’s Tracks. Sometimes things have
gotten really bad. If you are separated from your spouse or heading
towards a divorce, you can turn it around sometimes in just a matter
of 10 minutes, if you use some simple but amazing Relationship
Intelligence. This system can change your future.
Sex Secrets Your Momma Never Told You! The Train
Your Mate System introduces you to Advanced Sex. No, it’s not some
new position or silly new erogenous zone. However old you are, and
however much you think you already know, this one chapter will blow
you away and you can immediately begin to take sex to a whole new
level. And your mate will absolutely love you for it!
(Begins on page 100)
How to Stop
The Pain of a Break Up! The best way, in most cases,
is to stop the break up! You can do this often times in one or two
ten minute conversations. The Train Your Mate System for Having
the Relationship You Want will give you a complete step by step
guide for what to say and do! How can you take care of yourself and
start to feel better immediately, today? Learn this system and in as
little as ten minutes start to turn things around.
The Love
Multiplier! Feel 5-10 Times the Love!Learn
this remarkable tool based on the latest findings in neuroscience.
You and your mate can take 5 minutes a day to more than triple the
amount of love and pleasure you get from your marriage. This is one
of the most fun marital skills you can learn. Master this and you
will make your marriage “cheat-proof” and more intimate than ever.
(Starts on page 90)
Want proof that it
works?
I realize this might be starting to sound like some
overhyped sales pitch and you may be skeptical. Having worked with tons
of couples, I can honestly tell you that this is marriage advice we all
need. I’m passionate about getting the word out. It does make a
difference. Everyone should have it. Hopefully someday it will be taught
in schools. But here’s some “proof” from satisfied clients:
"I Got My Spouse Back Into
Me!"
“My mate wasn’t that into me anymore and was ready
to call it quits. With the Train Your Mate System he was back into
me within a week. Thanks so much!”
Sue Whitman,
San Diego, CA
"Infidelity Almost Killed My Marriage!"
“John, your book really helped me deal with a
cheating spouse. We are back together and on the way to doing better
than ever. Me and my kids thank you for it!”
Colleen Strahan,
Aurora, CO
"Our
relationship was on the rocks with no sex!"
“Our relationship was on the rocks. No sex, no
fun, not really much fighting since we were so distant from each
other. I tried two things from The Train Your Mate System the first
week and it was amazing. Now he’s looking me in the eyes, we talk
some, and we’re making love again. I’m looking forward to next week!
”
Anne Bachman,
Sydney, Australia
"We stopped fighting at the
source!"
“We were fighting and arguing all the time. About
the kids, about money, about the chores. I didn’t believe you could
‘stop fighting at the source.’ But now, after one month, we play
more and fight a lot less. Everyone should use this System!”
Let me be clear. The Train Your Mate System
is not about using some tricks or gimmicks to try to manipulate your
mate. It is about some of the latest Relationship Intelligence for
getting more of what you both want. Love, romance, play and partnership.
They didn’t teach us this stuff in school. But it works even if you’re
the only one that seems to be trying to fix things.
Frequently Asked
Questions
about How To Get Your Love Back
What does The
Train Your Mate System cost?
Seeing a couples counselor will cost $100 an hour. Breaking up,
moving out, getting a divorce will cost you thousands. But you can
learn how to Have the Relationship You Want for less than half the
cost of one hour with a couples counselor. The Relationship
Intelligence skills you will learn in this book cost $37.
For the cost of a night out with your
spouse you can get a complete system for having breakthroughs in
your marriage that will provide years of pleasure. Investing $37 in
your marriage is one of the best investments you can make if you are
worried about living unhappily ever after.
Can I really
change things if I’m the only one trying?
Yes, you can, and you’ll understand exactly how within the first
several pages of the book. The reason this works is because we all
want more love, intimacy and fun in our relationships. The Train
Your Mate System just helps you guide your marriage back to
more of the “Nirvana” you both want. Yes, the System will work on
even the most hard headed, argumentative or disinterested spouse.
Get it today and see for yourself.
What if your strategies don’t
work for me?
That’s a fair question. This book comes with a 60 day absolutely
no risk guarantee. You get 60 days to see if it works. 60 days to
try it on your most challenging relationship issue.
If you read this book and don’t think it will
work for you, you’ll get a 100% refund, no questions asked. And, at
least you’ll have learned some remarkable Relationship Intelligence
for the time you invested to read the book.
You’ll still have this powerful knowledge to use for the rest of
your life. Download the book and see for yourself.
When will I
receive the Train Your Mate System?
Immediately upon ordering. You will be able to download it in just
minutes and start putting it to use to start having breakthroughs in
your relationship. I strongly advise that you read the whole book
before using any of the skills. You need to understand how they all
can work together based on your individual situation to rejuvenate
your relationship. But you can read the whole 170+ pages in just a
few hours.
What if I have
a question about something in The Train Your Mate System?
Terrific. It would be my pleasure to give you a hand and I give you
a special “client only” contact email address within the book.
What if we’re already separated
or getting a divorce?
If you still want it to work out, then you need help. You’re getting
a divorce because you’ve run into big problems in your relationship.
Again, I’ve found that most really big relationship problems can
begin to be solved within ten minutes. Really. There is a whole
section in the book for you if you are separated or divorcing.
Shouldn’t we just go see a
couples counselor?
If you can get your mate to go, by all means see a therapist.
However, many partners refuse to go. In any event, get The Train
Your Mate System so that you can start to improve your marriage
regardless of whether your mate will go into counseling with you.
For less than half the cost of seeing a therapist one time, you can
learn how to have the relationship you want.
What if the love’s been gone a
long time? Is it too late?
No. If you are still together, however unhappily, you can use The
Train Your Mate System to start turning things around today. Really.
Oftentimes within ten minutes. Your situation is far from
hopeless. Download the book in minutes and discover
for yourself if this isn’t some of the most amazing Relationship
Intelligence you’ve ever heard of, period.
What about the other
relationship books out there?
You can buy other books that will give you some useful tips, I’m
sure. But nothing else will give you
A Complete System for Having the Marriage You Want. You
simply won’t find information elsewhere like The Love Multiplier.
Turning Conflict into Caresses. The 4 Step Change Method and so much
more of some of the most remarkable Relationship Intelligence
available.
The Train Your Mate
System for Having the
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We weren’t taught any
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P.S. It took me years to learn this
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relationship problems shouldn’t you have the latest Relationship
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“My spouse wasn’t that into me
anymore
and was ready to call it quits. With the Train
Your Mate System he was back into me within a week. Thanks so much!”
Sue Whitman,
San Diego, CA
"Infidelity Almost Killed My Marriage!
John, your book really helped me deal with a
cheating spouse. We are back together and on the way to doing better
than ever. Me and my kids thank you for it!”